Monday morning, my best friend called wondering if I had read the New York Times article that unveils the literary phenom JT Leroy’s public persona. I hadn’t and quickly read it. I won’t go into detail, but pretty much it asserts that the person that appears in a wig and sunglasses is not only a [...]

I’m a little embarrassed by my reaction yesterday when someone I really like asked me if I’d chat with some guy about coming out to his best friend. The guy is 24 y.o. and is afraid to do it.
Okay, I’ll be honest – I was jealous. Who’s this guy you’re talking to?, I thought. But, [...]

The guy-atus is over and I just had a nite of online chatting. They were okay chats, but none that really held my attention. A few guys I had to chase away, because I didn’t want to talk about whether I was a top or a bottom (could we see if we even like eachother [...]